Kartu Nama

waterfall.jpgAlhamdullilah, akhir pekan kemarin saya bertemu kawan lama setelah sekian lama tidak berjumpa, biasa ia senang dipanggil ‘Salim”. Saya mengenalnya dengan baik dan memang ia “smart” terbukti banyak prestasi yang sudah diraihnya , kini sambil bekerja ia sedang kuliah di UNJ program doktor dengan bidang study Manajemen Sumber Daya Manusia. Disela perbincangan kami ia menyodorkan kartu namanya , yang elegan dan menarik. Sayangnya sikap ia yang santun tidak terbalas oleh saya , dikarenakan saya tidak mempunyai kartu nama. Saya memang menyadari pentingnya kartu nama, namun kadang malas untuk membuat kartu nama . Saya beranggapan tidak banyak berarti atas selembar kartu nama, ternyata pemikiran tersebut keliru. Kawan saya, Salim spontan menjelaskan  dengan gamblang dan penuh suka cita makna kartu nama. Berikut yang bisa saya tulis untuk memaknai kartu nama dari pertemuan dengan kawan saya, Salim:

a. Kartu nama penting dimiliki oleh pekerja yang sering kontak dengan banyak orang  sebagai alat publikasi diri kita secara personal terhadap orang yang telah lama kita kenal atau orang yang baru mengenal kita.

b. Kartu nama yang kita miliki dapat sebagai alat “marketing” profesi pekerjaan.

c. Kartu nama yang kita berikan dengan tulus kepada relasi atau orang yang baru kita kenal merupakan alat bantu mereka memudahkan agar dapat mengontak kita dengan cepat tanpa mencari layanan informasi  atau buku kenangan.

d. Berikan kartu nama kepada orang lain dengan santun, senyum, dan menurut etika .

e. Jika kita menerima kartu nama dari seseorang , maka janganlah langsung disimpan ke saku baju/ celana panjang terlebih saku bagian belakang . Namun lihatlah kartu nama tersebut dengan menanyakan kepada si pemberi apakah nama yang tercantum pada kartu nama tersebut sudah benar ejaan hurufnya atau gelar bila ada , lalu simpan kartu nama tersebut pada tempat khusus penyimpanan kartu nama , jika tidak ada simpan ke saku baju bagian depan.

Setelah mendengar penjelasan kawan saya- tersebut, sekarang paradigma lama atas kartu nama berubah , saya jadi semangat untuk membuat kartu nama, meski sederhana.

Salam senyum, buatmu Salim

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A Process of Becoming

By Grace F. Knoche

We have selected reincarnation as our subject, not only because of its growing appeal to persons of serious and inquiring bent, but primarily because it offers a sound and compassionate perspective on the totality of our lives. What other theory can compare with the ennobling concept that we human beings, in concert with all of nature’s kingdoms, are evolving participants in a timeless cosmic process — a process that includes a succession of births and deaths for every life form.

The theme is large, encompassing the infinitely vast and the infinitely minute, going to the heart of human need. Who are we? where did we come from, and why? and what kind of future may we expect, as individuals and as a species? There is a great deal of confusion in our current thinking, largely because we have alienated ourselves from our source, our god-essence. We need to know with certainty that our roots go deeper than this life, and that a part of us endures beyond death. We need to find meaning in suffering and behind the frightening injustices inflicted upon children, animals, and millions of innocent victims of ruthless crimes, senseless accidents, when there is no apparent cause in this life.

Solid knowledge today about these matters that ought most to concern us is appallingly slight — not because it is unavailable, for there is a fund of teaching and practical wisdom in the core doctrines of the world’s religions, in myth, legend, aboriginal traditions, and fairy tale, but because we have forgotten how to apply the theosophic keys that are waiting to be used intelligently and, hopefully, with altruistic purpose.

The concept of reincarnation is, of course, very old, and the cyclic return of the soul for learning purposes and expansion of awareness was as widely known throughout the ancient pagan world as it always has been among Orientals. Several of the early Church Fathers who were versed in Platonic and Pythagorean thought accepted it, among them Origen, who wrote of the soul’s pre-existence and its “ultimate mergence with the Divine Unity.” In the 6th century A.D., however, a number of his doctrinal theses were condemned as heretical and banned. It seems incomprehensible to us today that a teaching as universal as reincarnation should have been withdrawn from public knowledge and held under ecclesiastical wraps for a near 1500 years. One cannot help wondering what the history of the Occident might have been had reincarnation remained a vivifying element in the Christian message.

Fortunately, although it was tabu to preach the doctrine of the soul’s rebirth from the pulpit, the immortal song of bards and poets could not be silenced, and when the Renaissance came to “speed the stars of Thought” (to borrow a phrase from Emerson,) philosophers joined poets in openly speaking and writing of intimations of a life or lives lived before. Later, Transcendentalists on both sides of the Atlantic powerfully affirmed this transforming idea, this doctrine of hope and consolation.

H. P. Blavatsky synthesized the accumulated wisdom of the ages in three basic axioms, namely –

  • that beyond all is “the ONE LIFE, eternal, invisible, yet Omnipresent, without beginning or end” — nameless and unutterable, its one attribute is “eternal, ceaseless Motion”;
  • that from this One Reality the bipolarity of light and darkness, spirit and matter, birth and death, comes into play so that universes are born and die in regular succession;
  • and that every individual soul or life-spark, each identical with the “Universal Over-Soul,” must pass through every level of being in order to earn its way to godhood. (The Secret Doctrine 1:2, 14-18; see also SUNRISE, Special Issue, “Theosophy,” April/May 1984, “Three Basic Truths of Being.”.)

It is all a grand process of being and becoming – divinity in action through the perennial flux, ebb, and reflux of the life force, the rhythmic coming into being and vanishing of universes and their reappearance from the deeps of Space. This is the old mystery of the One emanating the many, and the many in the course of ages becoming the One.

With this as background to our thinking, reincarnation is seen as the human mode of the one cosmic process of Divinity manifesting in terrestrial spheres — the Word made flesh of Christian tradition — the Logos seeking imbodiment after imbodiment in numberless forms for the grand purpose of bringing into activity the seed-logos dwelling within the inmost essence of every entity. Is this not what the human adventure is all about: to become that which we feel so deeply we really are, if only we had a chance? Such a world view has power to alter human destiny if intelligently and courageously applied to every phase of our private and public lives. Knotty problems we will always have; for as human beings we are bound to make mistakes all along the way, in parenting, educating, civic duties, in our job or profession. But just knowing that this one life is not the only chance we have lifts a tremendous burden of guilt off our backs. We have always the assurance of another and yet another opportunity to set things right and to bring to maturity ever nobler qualities of character.

As we think, so are we — and what a stunning change in world and individual karma could take place if we dared to hold the vision and had the will and compassion to energize it into action. If we would begin the uphill trek to a saner civilization, you and I must take the first invisible, unnoticed, yet significant step of starting where all genuine change begins, within ourselves. In time the cumulative effect would be to bring about a reversal of the negative and destructive thinking that is the breeding ground of humanity’s ills. Inevitably we have been making karma for ages, singly and together and of every sort, and we are meeting now the consequences of our noble and degrading thoughts and deeds in former lives. There is no such thing as thinking or feeling in a vacuum; not only are our individual and national karmas intermeshed, but the world’s karma is our karma, our responsibility. We have contributed toward it in past lives, both creatively and destructively. Recognition of this gives us the motivation to heal where there is hurt, to rectify where there is wrong, and to sustain and nourish, wherever we can, the least seed of generosity and caring in human relationships.

With all the tragedy that stalks our planet, rejuvenating influences are gaining momentum and steadily working their beneficent changes in the timbre of world thought. It is a great strength and encouragement to know that millions of people are dedicating time and energy to relieving the hunger, poverty, and disease that are maiming the lives of so many over the globe. Others, equally dedicated, are convinced of the efficacy of the long-range goal of striving to root out the causes of human misery, and to transform ugliness into harmony and beauty in our physical environment, as well as in human souls.

But before all, we must seek to be in harmony with ourselves. This sounds simple enough, yet how difficult we make life for ourselves and others when we get tangled up in knots of anxiety and fear. When all is serene within and we feel the currents flowing gently through us, we are attuned to our higher self and to the unspoken need of our neighbor. We are, at least momentarily, in synchrony with nature’s rhythm.

With an ever receding horizon of opportunity before us we can dare to believe in ourselves and in humanity’s future, and we won’t have to ask when life begins. We will know that life ever is, has always been, and always will be; for a human being is far more than what we see. Inwardly, whatever our current karma, we have a long history stretching back far beyond this present life, an ancestry of soul experience that has been eons in the making and holds the promise of unimagined richness of quality and power to be unfolded in future cycles.

Think what a release such a vision brings when grievous illness strikes. Though a part of us agonizes — for it is heartrending to be able to do so little to relieve the suffering of another — the shared knowledge of the justice and compassionate purpose behind all experience helps immeasurably to ease the pain of parting. Death comes to all, young and old alike. If we have but a few months to be with those we love, we can try to follow the admonition of Marcus Aurelius to “live on the mountaintop of our being.” Then when death comes, we will know that “all is well” for the one who must leave us for a while. Certainly the nature of the near-death experience reported so widely today is helping us to reassess our values about death: to see it as a friend, a wise provision of nature, and our children, our parents, and indeed everyone as expressions of the starry beings we interiorly are.

(From Sunrise magazine, April/May 1985. Copyright © 1985 by Theosophical University Press.)

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Kunjungan Guru SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta ke SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta

image014.jpgSenyum sumringah terpancar saat kami menyambut kedatangan “crew” SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta , tepatnya dari wilayah barat Jakarta pada tanggal 15 Januari 2008 pukul 09.30 Wib. Rombongan SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta yang diketuai oleh Bpk. H.M Bakri langsung menuju Ruang Serbaguna yang sejuk , SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta.

Acara dibuka wakil kepala sekolah Drs. H. Abdur Rahman yang menyampaikan sejarah  serta kondisi fisik  SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta. Berikutnya dilanjutkan oleh pucuk pimpinan SMK Negeri 8 jakarta yang baru saja menunaikan ibadah Haji pada tahun ini, Dr. Sugiarto, M.Ed dengan senyum menceritakan pengalaman pertamanya saat akan berdinas di SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta yang mana harus menghapal jalan menuju SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta dan sejatinya memang jauh dari rumah beliau. Lalu, memperkenalkan masing – masing “crew” SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta, yakni wakil kepala sekolah, para koordinator bidang Humas, Kurikulum, Kesiswaan dan Sarana prasarana, para Ka. program yang ada di SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta dan bidang program Normatif dan Produktif. Penuh antusias mendengarkan “crew” SMK Negeri 42 saat Bpk. Sugiarto menceritakan prestasi dan kondisi Kegiatan Belajar Mengajar di SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta.

Gayung bersambut , kini ketua rombongan dari SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta memperkenalkan anggota rombongannya yang terdiri dari para Ka. Program Penjualan, Adm. Perkantoran dan Akuntansi. Bpk. H. M Bakri dengan relaks menyampaikan tujuan utama berkunjung ke SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta,  Apa konsep SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta dalam proses KBM ? karena sejatinya input SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta sama dengan input SMK 42 Jakarta , dan ternyata pimpinan SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta , Drs. W. Ganef yang tidak hadir karena sedang mengikuti sertijab, menginginkan suatu saat nanti SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta akan menuju ISO seperti yang sudah diraih oleh SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta maka itu ‘  bagaimana prosedur untuk menuju Manajemen ISO yang ditanyakan oleh ketua rombongan.

 Ada kesan positif dari para “crew” SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta terhadap pimpinan Bpk. Ganef selama ini seperti perubahan warna dan aroma asin menjadi wangi yang melekat pada siswa – siswa SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta.

Usai saling memperkenalkan diri rombongan melanjutkan dengan meninjau dan saling curah pendapat pada ruang / Lab. jurusan program keahlian yang terdapat di SMK Negeri 8 Jakarta dengan didampingi masing – masing guru program keahlian.

 Salam sukses ,  buat seluruh keluarga SMK Negeri 42 Jakarta.

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virus of the mind

Judul diatas sama seperti judul sebuah buku yang pernah saya baca karya Richard Brodie.  Virus akal budi menyeruak pada sekitar lingkungan kita. dirasakan atau tidak kita mengalaminya, terlebih sebagai seorang pendidik. Penciptaan siang – malam, baik – buruk, laki – perempuan, atau apa saja selalu mengarah kepada jumlah dua. kaitannya dengan virus akal budi dicontohkan sebagai berikut :

_ sering kita ketahui pemerintah gencar memberantas narkoba, bersamaan dengan itu gencar pula si ‘bandar” merancang penjualan sehalus mungkin agar racikannya habis terjual.

_iklan televisi atau tayangan sinetron memberi “virus ” pada perilaku kita terlebih anak-anak yang belum mampu menyaring dengan sempurna,  meski dikeluarkan aturan agar bijak memilih dan milah tayangan tontonan televisi.

_ Undang – undang perpajakan dibuat secara ketat, namun maish ada bolongnya pajak dalam jumlah yang sangat besar mengelabui aparat pajak. Masih banyak contoh lainnya.

Sesuatu pekerjaan raksasa memberi virus positif pada akal budi peserta didik mengingat kondisi yang mengarah ke kapitalisme, dalam segala bidang.

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semangat lks

leaf Tanpa terasa, kegiatan ajang kompetisi siswa smk buat wilayah jakarta selatan siap digelar . semoga sukses buat peserta dan pembimbing. kobarkan semangat sportifitas untuk  menggairahkan peningkatan kualitas. salam sukses ….

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process to becoming

Setiap orang dalam proses menjadi. Menjadi lebih baik, menjadi lebih bijak, menjadi lebih kaya, atau menjadi apa saja. Menganut tesis ini dengan demikian setiap manusia itu on going, selalu dalam perjalanan. Tidak ada starting point dan stopping point. Dinamika “proccess to becoming” memiliki riak berupa interaksi, aksi, respons, konflik dan harmoni. Karena ia berproses maka hari ini berbeda dengan hari esok. Semangat perbedaan ini memicu usaha. Usaha untuk menjadi lebih baik, lebih bijak, lebih sejahtera dan lain-lain.

Karena setiap orang berproses, maka mereka memiliki banyak pilihan. Pilihan dalam usaha menjadi ini sangat berpengaruh pada hasil, citra dan  bentuk sementara seseorang. “Sementara”, karena bentuk akhir itu tergantung pada bagaimana cara pandang orang terhadap prosesnya.  

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